Monday, August 10, 2015

Widening the Circle

When I was little, I didn't have a lot of friends. In Kindergarten, I met my best friend who was a year older than me. She had been held back because she had undergone a kidney transplant. Mandy passed away in October of 2008. Since that time, God has been all over my friendships. In fact, I have been blessed by some amazing friendships in my life, but I never imagined how wide God would make that friendship circle. There are days I think that the circle can never get any larger and then God expands it even more! God has a funny way of doing that, doesn't he?

A year ago, last October, I joined the Write 31 Days challenge. My topic was "Being a Daughter: 31 Days of Mental Illness." Never could I have imagined, how much this writing challenge would change me and would bring more amazing friends into my life. And than God went and expanded the circle more!

Due to the challenge, I was introduced even more to the Five Minute Friday community. (I cannot wait each week for our Thursday Twitter parties) These women have become my heart!!!!!!!!! They continually accept me for who I am. They continually see things in me that I don't always see in myself. They never let me forget who and whose I am....a daughter of the one true king. We have looked at each other's Facebook pages and even listened to each other's voices on social media outlets such as Voxer. We have read and shared each other's words. We have sent each other snail mail as part of the FMF Snail Mail party. Those words so often are just what I need to hear and come at exactly the right moment. And again the circle grows wider......

Then last Wednesday, my sister and I stood on a sidewalk at the Grand Ole Opry waiting for a car with Iowa plates to come pick us up. That car was being driven by one of the many FMF women. Jen and I have read each other's blogs and conversed on Twitter and Instagram. But now here we were looking at each other face to face...listening to each other's words spoken out loud. Jen, my sister, and I explored downtown Nashville together and then went and had supper together. Yet again the circle grew a little bit wider...or in the words of my friend Janel, my heart grew even larger too!

Friday morning, I found myself standing on an elevator waiting to meet two more of the FMF ladies. I stepped onto the elevator and pushed the button to take me down to the lower floor. But instead of going down, that darn elevator went all the way to the 14th floor. God has a funny sense of humor, doesn't he? The elevator finally reached the 14th floor and then began descending down. It finally reached the lower level and I stepped off. I turned around the corner to the hotel lobby, looking for these two dear woman. But they actually spotted me before I spotted them. A voice exclaimed, "There she is!" The next thing I knew I was being embraced in a warm loving hug. After the embrace ended, I reached out and embraced the other woman.

Together, the three of us stepped into the elevator and rode back up to the 7th floor where we would find my sister in our hotel room. We sat and talked. Funny thing is, it was like we have been friends forever. No ackwardness...but rather pure joy and friendship. The four of us then went to eat at this quaint little cafe in the Germantown neighborhood of Nashville. The three of us (kindred sisters introduced through the blogging world) now were sitting and breaking bread together. (Jen and I had sat and broke bread together early in the week too!) I still smile at the fact that the three of us ordered the Fried Green Tomato Sandwich while two of us ordered an identical meal: Fried Green Tomato Sandwich with French Onion Soup.

Through the breaking of the bread, gathered around the table, God widened the circle even more leaving room for more friendships to be born and welcomed into this holy space. I may not have been able to attend the FMF retreat, but I still feel like my heart is ten times larger this week and that the circle will always have room for more! God will continually call together women (and men) of different times and places to break bread together.


I am linking up with Holly for Testimony Tuesday; Kelly for the RaRa Linkup, Holley for Coffee for your Heart and Jennifer for Tell His Story:

 


12 comments:

  1. I'm so glad God has blessed you with true friendships, Tara. It's so neat that you even get to meet some online friends in person. I love Shakespeare's quote about what a friend is.

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    1. Trudy, thank you for stopping by. And I too love that Shakespeare quote about friendship!

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  2. Your post made my heart so happy. So thrilled that you got to make that real life connection and share some time with Jen. Yay!

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    1. I am glad my post made your heart happy. I am so glad it worked out for me and Jen to connect and share some time too!

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  3. What fun! I love it!

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  4. And, it was so disappointing that my plans were changed and we didn't get to have our meet up. But one day we will, sister! xo

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    1. One day we will, sister! xo back at you!

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  5. I think that has been the most interesting thing about the whole retreat. Meeting those that we know are friends forever. I wish we could have met up. There's always next year. ;)

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    1. Yes there is always next year!

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  6. I love this! The widening of the circle and the opening of our hearts even wider. Thank you for sharing your experience in Nashville. Consider yourself an honorary member of the FMF retreat group. Virtual hugs from me but someday - who knows???

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    1. Thanks Mary! Thanks for making me an honorary member of the FMF Retreat Group. I love that! Virtual hugs back at you and who knows maybe someday in real life!

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