"Pray then in this way: Our Father in heaven, hallowed be your name. Your kingdom come. Your will be done, as earth as it is in heaven. Give us this day our daily bread. And forgive us our debts, as we also have forgiven our debtors. And do not bring us to the time of trial but rescue us from the evil one. If you forgive others their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you; but if you do not forgive others, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses."--Matthew 6:9-15
"Forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us." Or in another version, "Forgive us our sins as we forgive those who sin against us." How often do we go through the motions of reciting these words from the Lord's Prayer without truly thinking about what they mean? How can we forgive those who have hurt us...especially if those we need to forgive are those who are leaders in our lives and who we have trusted?
I have been extremely lucky in my life to have leaders who have been wonderful leaders. Yet that is not always the case. In fact, several years ago, the synod I was serving in had an unfortunate situation happen. A member of the synod staff had been embezzling money from the organization. I'll admit that many of us were hurt and had (still have) a hard time forgiving this man. However I am reminded of a story where neighbors of this man and his wife invited them over for supper. What a powerful witness of forgiveness and grace! The neighbors wanted him and his wife to know that it was about the act and not them as human beings.
The truth is that we are all created as saints and sinners. We all sin and fall short of the glory of God. Yet God promises that God will forgive us of our sins if we confess our sins. I am reminded of these words from 1 John 1:9-10; "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness. If we claim we have not sinned, we make him out to be a liar and his word is not in us."
As I think about all who have been hurt and experienced brokenness by a leader in the church, I find them (actually all of us;sinners)being convicted in the words we hear in verse ten. The Message translation captures 1 John 1:9-10 so well. "If we claim that we're free of sin, we're only fooling ourselves. A claim like that is errant nonsense. On the other hand, if we admit our sins--make a clean breast of them--he won't let us down; he'll be true to himself. He'll forgive our sins purge us of all wrongdoing. If we claim that we've never sinned, we out-and-out contradict God---make a liar out of him. A claim like that only shows off our ignorance of God."
The reality is that all of us including leaders in the church are sinful beings. We all make mistakes. Forgiveness and grace are marvelous gifts, yet I don't believe God is telling us to forget the sin. In fact, I think God calls all of us to seek the help, counsel and forgiveness that we need. This is shown to us through this wonderful humble servant leader God's son Jesus Christ. Jesus was not afraid to sit with tax collectors and sinners. Jesus wasn't afraid to pick up basin and towel and wash the feet of all God's people even those who would later deny him and betray him. Jesus' example of humble servanthood is the ultimate example of God's grace. And by the humble example of Jesus, we all especially leaders in the church are called to embody a life of humble servanthood too.
"So if anyone is in Christ, there is a new creation: everything old has passed away; see, everything has become new!"--2 Corinthians 5:17 (NRSV)
"Because of the sacrifice of the Messiah, his blood poured out on the altar of the Cross, we're a free people--free of penalties and punishments chalked up by all our misdeeds. And not just barely free, either. Abundantly free!!"--Ephesians 1:7 (The Message)**Please note these are my own views and are not necessarily the views of my church.
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